BE THE PURSUED NOT THE PURSUER!!!

Ladies,are you in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man, or are you in that on-again,off-again,no commitment relationship? Do your relationships start out great,like he's your prince charming,but it all fades away and you're left with a guy who's only half there? Does he seem busy all the time and barely has time to see you,and even when you see each other,he's only all about the sex? Well Ladies,you're in luck! Because there is a way you can turn all of that around by attracting the right type of man you need in your life.

.At this point however, I must clarify that these things happen in your relationship not beacause of any 'ill luck' or bad looks but because of the same mistakes you make over and over again. First and foremost ladies,date as many guys as you can handle.yes I said it! Date more men than you usually would,you must realise that you  have CHOICES. Date more men than usual,that way instead of being held on to the string of one man,he'll be just another man in your dating rotation and that way you'l be in control

. Secondly,we ladies over-nurture and thus generally making our men the center of our lives,this, contrary to what we hope for,has a counter effect as it pushes our men away,he begins to feel like he is being chased then he looses intrest because ladies,the act of chasing is predominantly the role of the guy and as modern as you think you think both you and your man are,you can't change this fact,God has made it so. Therefore,all that we ladies can do is flirt a little and encourage a guy if he shows some interest in you.so stop all the constant texting,calls and "I love you's"and get out of that imaginery relationship you have going in your head.

 Lastly,step-back,don't pretend to step back because trust me men often know if its all pretence,so you have actually truely step back. Stop doing and giving things like you normally will do for him.let him do all the toasting,let him initiate all the moves.

                             Relax and let him take the lead role!